So, I’ve gone on many a Black Friday excursions. I remember going with Dad when I was young, helping him get gifts. That was when the stores offered doorbuster prizes to the first 100 or so people who went through the doors. Snowmen, gift cards, Matchbox cars…
I’ve also gone a few times by myself, mostly in the last few years. Most of those times I’ve waited in the Staples store line to get a hard drive or blank CDs. My most profitable year by far was the year I waited at Target for $100 Star Wars Lego sets that were on sale for $50. I got two of them and sold them for a total of about $250 on eBay- definitely worth that wait.
As each Black Friday comes and goes, I notice more and more how my mindset is so different than that of other people. I still go every year, and this is my list of priorities: 1) Buy something that I can later resell for more, 2) Buy something I could really use or a gift for someone else, and 3) Watch the chaos of greedy humanity.
First of all, Black Friday is one of my best chances to find low-priced items that people want and later sell it for more. So if I can replicate the incident where I made $150 with the Lego sets, that’s what I most want to do.
Secondly, sometimes I find things that would be really useful to me, or I find gifts that I want for others but at a lower price. Such was the case this year when I found something for a member of my family. But for the most part, I rarely find anything I can’t live without or something that I can’t go without until the next Black Friday. For example, I would like to have a laptop someday, but I keep putting off buying one because each year I decide that I can go one more year without one, and as year goes by, they just keep getting nicer and nicer and less and less pricey.
Sometimes I find things that I’d really like (usually computer-related stuff) at great low prices, but I quickly convince myself that I’ve lived long enough without it that I don’t truly need it. As for the things I do consider nowadays, they are usually photography-related items because I’m always looking to upgrade my photography outfit. But over and over again I realize that I can do just fine without many of the extra things.
The last few years I haven’t really had a lot that I wanted to get, so I’ve mainly gone out just to watch all the other people go wild. In fact, this year I woke up shortly after 4am and went to Staples without wanting to buy anything there. But I was first in line and I just sat down and worked on memorizing the book of James. Eventually I got pictures of the line as it formed and soon after that I left. First in line and I saved ALL my money!
After Staples I went to other stores just to take pictures, and of course, I also bought that gift for someone else. It was a fun time, and here are some things I heard other people saying.
“I figured you would want the couch cover more than the tutu?” (a man talking to his wife on the phone while waiting in line)
“They’re all teenagers! They shouldn’t even be out at this time!” (referring to all the people- she was way wrong though)
“I smoked three cigarettes while standing in line out there.” (makes me want to start coughing really loud!)
“I’ve stood out there since 10:00!” (a woman at Best Buy telling an employee how long she waited; the current time was 5:15am)
It’s just CrAzY to hear what people are thinking and what prizes they want to secure.
Ironically enough, one verse in particular from James really stuck out to me today as I memorized it: “For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there” (James 3:16).

Santa’s desperate this year as his elves went on strike
Black Friday epitomizes the concepts of envy and seeking self…and of course, it promotes chaos and confusion. Yet this is now one of the reasons many Americans look forward to Thanksgiving. They spend Thursday being grateful and they spend the next day doing just the opposite.
Anyway, having said all that, I still have fun going out on Black Friday even though I don’t plan to get anything.
Long gone are the days of door buster prizes. People don’t need those items to motivate them to line up anymore.
Each year stores open earlier and earlier…the recent trend is to just open the night before while people are still digesting their turkey.
But one thing that doesn’t change is watching people go CrAzY.
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This morning, we left the Philippines. Dad had stayed up most of the night packing our stuff. All we had left to pack when we woke up were some shells that we had collected from the ocean beaches in Sta. Maria. However, at breakfast, Uncle James told us that there were some shells that we should not take with us.
On Saturday morning- today- we came to the dental office for one last visit. On the way here, we went by the house where Dad was born and first grew up in. It was not much compared to the house we’re staying in that he later lived in. The bakery that used to be across the street from them, Moonlight Bakery, is not there anymore. Dad said that he didn’t even recognize the street anymore.
Next, we went to the prison for the service that afternoon. Before we could go in to see them, we had to get our arm stamped with the seal of the Department of Justice- Bureau of Correction. Pastor Amar jokingly warned us to not try to erase it. Without the seal, you aren’t allowed to leave the prison unless you’re good at escaping (and then you’d never get out if you’re caught). Every once in awhile, I would see my arm in my peripheral vision and it would look like I had a tattoo. That was really weird. I wonder how people can stand having those things permanently on their skin. It would drive me crazy after awhile.
We got to the church and found the good-sized building to be a little small for all the members. They have two buildings, one for the services and one for the baptisms. They are hoping to build a new building since their church is growing so fast. Through the ministry of Pastor Amar and an annual basketball tournament in the prison, the church has really prospered.
When the service ended, we all went outside the building and had our picture taken in front of it with all the church members. Then they took us on a tour around the prison. We went by many other churches, a school, and a building built specifically for those who were artists. The art that impressed me the most was the wood burning pictures. I don’t know how they did it, but they made life-like portraits of people by burning wood in different shades of black and brown. If there was anything I didn’t like, It was probably when we had to walk past the death row building. I was told that there are about 1000 inmates in there. No one in there is allowed to come out or have the freedom that the other prisoners have.
After the tire got finished, we went back to the Festival Mall again. It was similar to Mall of America- it had four floors and even a small amusement park- and Pastor Amar said that it was bigger than the Mega Mall. We basically just looked around, but we also bought a couple things.
This morning, Friday morning, we woke up and left the hotel around 8:26am (7:26pm CST) after eating breakfast at Chow King again. I thought we were going to go straight back to Manila, but it turned out that we had more relatives to go see.
Whenever you walk by a “store” those who are selling the things always call out “Yes sir, watches sir” or “Yes maam, toys” or something similar. I noticed a long time ago that almost everyone sounds the same, no matter what they say.
Uncle Job talked with Uncle Joseph for awhile while we got a tour of his house. Finally, after we had been there awhile, we went out for lunch. We rode in two separate metered taxis to the SM mall there in Baguio. On the way there, Josephina asked us if we knew what the ozone layer was. She explained how it was a protective layer of the atmosphere that keeps the sun from burning us up.
That evening we went to Urdanetta where we got a hotel to stay in. This one was more like the way a real hotel should be. However, before we got too settled in, Dad and Jennifer and I went to the adjoining Chow King for supper. We were going to go to Jolibee earlier, but for some reason I suggested Chow King. If we had gone to Jolibee, that would have been our third time going to that particular Jolibee. Anyway, we went to Chow King and had supper (which included eggrolls). It was kind of fun because four times the power to the hotel and the restaurant went out.